In Africa ..there is a tribe..in this tribe..when someone does something wrong..they take him to the centre of the village where all the people gather there.and surround the person…the person spend in this place for two days..
During those two days ..the people of the village tell the good deeds that this person did during his life time.
It’s a cry of help of this person who made a mistake..
Do not blame your self all the time for your mistakes and wrong doings..
You are a human..just remember your good deeds and situations..
Turn over the page and open a new page..
The lesson is..everyone is good..be merciful to yourself.
Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.”
Al Zumar chapter